Here are the three most empowering words you can say to someone you love

What is it that we must do every single day on a daily basis that determines whether we fail or succeed? We are making decisions, everything is the result of decisions. Everything you see is the result of people’s decisions. Everything you do is made possible by your decisions. Everything you enjoy outside of yourself is also probably the result of other people’s decisions.

We are creators of reality by nature and there’s no getting away from it. No matter what you do in life you are creating because it is simply a byproduct of who we are and what we do on the planet. We create reality through our decisions. You are where you are today as a result of your decisions and you will be wherever you will be tomorrow as a result of your decisions. If you try not to make decisions then you would experience a reality in alignment with that decision… Indecision is decision, everything’s decision for us because we are conscious.

Therefore the most empowering thing you can say to someone you love when they are asking you for help is simply… “Figure it out”

Learning to figure things out is probably one of the single most important skills a human being must cultivate in order to be successful in life. We must learn to figure things out not so that we can be correct or right all the time but rather so we may develop muscles necessary to believe in our ability to figure things out. We must develop our own muscles and sharpen the tools necessary to figure things out on our own. Without this knowledge and experience we grow up physically but remain underdeveloped internally and are therefore handicapped as a result of looking outside of ourselves for answers that we need to learn how to find from within.

Telling someone to figure it out does nothing but empower them to learn that they are capable of solving their own problems and in reality they are the only one who’s ever been available to solve all of their problems. To believe anything else is actually disempowering because you cant change anything you cant take responsibility for. I speak much more about this in the video, check it out!